The little handbook on loving correction

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Ex Libris:. Narrative Type:. United States. Cultural Guide. Collector's Edition. Larry Tomczak. Tomczak also is accused of repeatedly assaulting a woman, who is given the pseudonym Carla Coe, with plastic and wooden sticks.

The alleged abuse began when she was a child and lasted more than two decades. When the woman was an adult, the lawsuit claims, Tomczak beat her bare backside. Tomczak denies all of the allegations of physical abuse. He also said that as a parent, he was saddened to hear of the allegations. But he said he knew nothing about sexual abuse in the denomination. A book called "The Little Handbook on Loving Correction," for sale on Tomczak's website, advises parents to use a stick to spank their children.

He stands by that advice today. Church leaders at Bethel World Outreach Church were out of town for a funeral and not available for comment. Due to disciplinary problems in schools, many are reevaluating their policies, like the Arlington School District outside Memphis, Tennessee. They voted to reinstate corporal punishment, saying, "Teachers need all tools possible.

Former NBA superstar Charles Barkley has joked, "If corporal punishment is a crime, then every black parent in the South is going to be put in jail! Clarity: Loving correction always begins by clearly defining and communicating reasonable boundaries before they are enforced. Obedience: Spankings can occur if there's persistent, deliberate disobedience. Right Attitudes: We are to "serve the Lord with gladness" Ps. Restoration: Embracing and reassuring a child afterward enables us to avoid leaving them feeling guilty or rejected.

Explanation: Taking time to explain the offense as well as enabling the parent to calm down if needed makes this essential. Consistency: Loving correction requires an investment and persevering commitment. Thoroughness: Shaping the will without breaking the spirit requires being authoritative, not authoritarian, so the child experiences some pain, versus simple "love pats. Yet afterward it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness in those who have been trained by it" Heb.

Immediately: With exceptions, loving correction should be given in the moment, not "when daddy comes home" hours later. Out of sight: Discipline is administered in private so as to not humiliate or embarrass a child.

Neutral Object: Scripture states a "rod [a small, flexible branch] of correction," not a hairbrush or the nearest object. Hands should be instruments expressing affection and tenderness; we don't want children flinching or retreating when a hand is raised. God in His wisdom prepared a strategic place on the anatomy of our toddlers and children that has ample cushiony, fatty tissue and sensitive nerve endings to respond to Spirit-led stings.

In 47 years of ministry, I've discovered that all children come equipped with one! Here's the deal: Scripture tells us "reproofs of instruction are the way to life" Prov. May this gift of God's timeless wisdom during this coronavirus crisis encourage everyone across America.